Comments on: Characteristics of a Pious Wife http://www.haqislam.org/characteristics-of-a-pious-wife/ "Surely, the true religion in Allah's sight is Islam" (3:19) Fri, 10 Feb 2012 11:39:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Safir Ahmad http://www.haqislam.org/characteristics-of-a-pious-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-4880 Safir Ahmad Thu, 08 Dec 2011 12:27:49 +0000 http://ahmeduk.wordpress.com/?p=54#comment-4880 Salam It is very nice of you to give advice in your short articles. I usually always read them. I would like to ask a question, if I may? QUESTION: In your article; "Characteristics of a Pious Wife" You state: The Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said, “If I were to order anyone to bow down to other than Allah, I would order the wife to do so for her husband. By the One who owns the soul of Muhammad,if a wife does not fulfill her obligations towards her husband, then she will not have fulfilled her obligations towards Allah.” [Ahmad] My question is about the word you used "BOW DOWN". Should this be "bow down" or "prostrate" Please kindly let me know. Safir Ahmad Salam

It is very nice of you to give advice in your short articles. I usually always read them. I would like to ask a question, if I may?

QUESTION: In your article; “Characteristics of a Pious Wife”

You state: The Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said, “If I were to order anyone to bow down to other than Allah, I would order the wife to do so for her husband. By the One who owns the soul of Muhammad,if a wife does not fulfill her obligations towards her husband, then she will not have fulfilled her obligations towards Allah.” [Ahmad]

My question is about the word you used “BOW DOWN”. Should this be “bow down” or “prostrate”

Please kindly let me know.

Safir Ahmad

]]> By: Seeker http://www.haqislam.org/characteristics-of-a-pious-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-4852 Seeker Sun, 04 Dec 2011 00:52:23 +0000 http://ahmeduk.wordpress.com/?p=54#comment-4852 Here are some more excellent comment in a forum on this topic. #7 : http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?56025-Pious-Muslim-Women-of-THIS-ERA-How-to-recognise-one&p=460736&viewfull=1#post460736 #35: http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?56025-Pious-Muslim-Women-of-THIS-ERA-How-to-recognise-one&p=461223&viewfull=1#post461223 Here are some more excellent comment in a forum on this topic.

#7 : http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?56025-Pious-Muslim-Women-of-THIS-ERA-How-to-recognise-one&p=460736&viewfull=1#post460736

#35: http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?56025-Pious-Muslim-Women-of-THIS-ERA-How-to-recognise-one&p=461223&viewfull=1#post461223

]]> By: Mohammad http://www.haqislam.org/characteristics-of-a-pious-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-4342 Mohammad Thu, 13 Oct 2011 06:35:48 +0000 http://ahmeduk.wordpress.com/?p=54#comment-4342 Love only for the sake of Allah (SWT) and no one else, when you do that, Allah (SWT) will make your marriage successful, Inshallah !!! Allah (SWT) knows best. Love only for the sake of Allah (SWT) and no one else, when you do that, Allah (SWT) will make your marriage successful, Inshallah !!!

Allah (SWT) knows best.

]]> By: jay http://www.haqislam.org/characteristics-of-a-pious-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-3988 jay Wed, 17 Aug 2011 09:54:38 +0000 http://ahmeduk.wordpress.com/?p=54#comment-3988 Love is something that you do for the sake of Allah, You will become a better person if you love something for the sake of Allah. Your love should be for Allah SWT and the prophet PBUH. Loving someone can sometime be satan deception which can draw you away from your religion, or on the other side make you closer to Allah SWT. Love, peace and well being of a person is when they are close to Allah SWT. The last thing you want is to love someone who has bad qualities this will end you up in sins. If someone has good qualities in time you will fall in love. it all depends whats you think love is, if i am not wrong i guess you are not physically attractive to him. if not my opinion will be to cool off the engagment, last thing you want is to get married and then love someone else, which will cause the marriage to break... and i'm sure love is not about hurting anyone, for personal gains in what ever means, but to give, love is to give... may Allah SWT guide you sister Love is something that you do for the sake of Allah, You will become a better person if you love something for the sake of Allah. Your love should be for Allah SWT and the prophet PBUH. Loving someone can sometime be satan deception which can draw you away from your religion, or on the other side make you closer to Allah SWT. Love, peace and well being of a person is when they are close to Allah SWT. The last thing you want is to love someone who has bad qualities this will end you up in sins. If someone has good qualities in time you will fall in love. it all depends whats you think love is, if i am not wrong i guess you are not physically attractive to him. if not my opinion will be to cool off the engagment, last thing you want is to get married and then love someone else, which will cause the marriage to break… and i’m sure love is not about hurting anyone, for personal gains in what ever means, but to give, love is to give… may Allah SWT guide you sister

]]> By: yusra http://www.haqislam.org/characteristics-of-a-pious-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-3287 yusra Thu, 24 Mar 2011 14:40:45 +0000 http://ahmeduk.wordpress.com/?p=54#comment-3287 i want to be a good and understanding wife to my husband,though am not married yet,the man am engaged to has all the qualities a good husband should have but i dont love him at all just his qualities.What do i do,i dont want to make a decision i will regret,bisalam i want to be a good and understanding wife to my husband,though am not married yet,the man am engaged to has all the qualities a good husband should have but i dont love him at all just his qualities.What do i do,i dont want to make a decision i will regret,bisalam

]]> By: jj http://www.haqislam.org/characteristics-of-a-pious-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-3246 jj Mon, 14 Mar 2011 23:19:24 +0000 http://ahmeduk.wordpress.com/?p=54#comment-3246 insha allah just ask your husband to explain. as we say here in the west...the only dumb question is the one that is never asked. if you ask your husband to explain more and in a nice way you ask him as i do my husband..he will be glad to go into more expalining for you...you have to let him know you do nt understand in order for him to help you understand. Insha allah this will work for you...good luck...and remember...your husband is not a mind reader and you have to let him know when you dont understand something...be always patient with him and allah will bless you with knowing all... insha allah just ask your husband to explain. as we say here in the west…the only dumb question is the one that is never asked. if you ask your husband to explain more and in a nice way you ask him as i do my husband..he will be glad to go into more expalining for you…you have to let him know you do nt understand in order for him to help you understand. Insha allah this will work for you…good luck…and remember…your husband is not a mind reader and you have to let him know when you dont understand something…be always patient with him and allah will bless you with knowing all…

]]> By: Aniya http://www.haqislam.org/characteristics-of-a-pious-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-2237 Aniya Tue, 08 Feb 2011 16:35:47 +0000 http://ahmeduk.wordpress.com/?p=54#comment-2237 what does a wife do when her husband refuses to talk planly? how can she know what her man wants? what does a wife do when her husband refuses to talk planly? how can she know what her man wants?

]]> By: uslim baby names http://www.haqislam.org/characteristics-of-a-pious-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-81 uslim baby names Wed, 26 Nov 2008 16:32:18 +0000 http://ahmeduk.wordpress.com/?p=54#comment-81 Pious wife is a great gift of Allah azovajal. Pious wife is a great gift of Allah azovajal.

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