Haq Islam » Parenting http://www.haqislam.org "Surely, the true religion in Allah's sight is Islam" (3:19) Tue, 27 Jul 2010 11:48:59 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 10 Principles for the Upbringing of Children http://www.haqislam.org/10-principles-for-the-upbringing-of-children/ http://www.haqislam.org/10-principles-for-the-upbringing-of-children/#comments Thu, 25 Jun 2009 12:35:26 +0000 Ahmed http://www.haqislam.org/?p=524 1. Teach by example, because children listen with their eyes.
2. Introduce Allah to your child: His glory, obedience to Him over obedience to anyone else, asking only from Him, Importance of the Faraa’idh.

3. Introduce Rasoolullah (S) to your child: His life & times, following his Sunnah in everything in life, his Message, and his Work: Da’wah.

4. Systematic education of Islam parallel with regular education: 4-5 hours/week; Arabic language, Tajweed, Qira’ah ul-Qur’an, Aqeedah, Hadith, Fiqh, Seerah.

5. Manners: Akhlaaq. Attention to detail about all aspects of behavior reinforced by your own behavior. You have to practice what you preach.

6.Concern for others : Self centered: Family members, environment, servants, strangers, road users, neighbors, shop keepers: Sensitive or senseless?

7. Physical fitness: Mothers stop pampering. Regular sports, especially team sports, nutrition, no junk food.

8. Scheduling time: Wake & Sleep early, TV, Daily Muhasiba, diary writing.

9. Responsibility: School projects, commons, home, neighborhood,

10. Drive for excellence in everything: Being No.1. Winning is a habit. So is losing. Focus on quality. Be a Standard Bearer of Islam.

Source: At-Talib

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